Birth date: Jul 9, 1929 Death date: Apr 8, 2020
Wilma Myrtle Ruder is now with her husband, Fred Ruder Sr. after 60 years of marriage. Teen-age sweethearts, they were married June 12,1949 at Elyria Methodist Church. Wilma raised 4 children with the kindest heart. She kept a men Read Obituary
Wilma brightened my day again and again. Always a loving smile, a kind word. So blessed to have known her and her family. Vivian Fekete
This is such a hard one for me as i love/loved Wilma dearly. She was sych a beautiful spirit one of whom i call God's earthly angels. Her smile and sweetness just warmed your heart. I loved stopping by when she fell asleep in the middle of the hall and rubbing her back or shoulder to awaken her and make sure she was alright and let her know i loved her. She would take my hand and we'd sit there smiling at each other commicating through our deafness. I will truly miss her and all of you as you were always such a blessing to us at O Neill. One last note. Wilma was one of the few residents my granddaughter Alayna would go running to and take her hand and smile with. I will miss seeing her and her decorated wheelchair. God's blessings on all of you. My prayers for God's comfort are with you during this harsh time.
Carolyn Griswold
I will miss her smiling face in the hall ways at oniell and ger signature wave 🥰 you will forever be missed
Wilma what can I say.. She was an angel on earth. I worked at oneill for 5 years on that time she became like family to me I recently left. My last day was really hard saying goodbye to my friends was difficult. But the memories I will cherish of Wilma telling me she loves me and will miss me I will carry this forever..
I first met Wilma while working at O'Neill Healthcare. I absolutely loved her and she would always greet me with a huge smile, wave and the best hugs. My husband also worked with Fred for a short time at Heidelberg. We are very sad to hear about her passing and our thoughts and prayers are with her family.
-Kevin and Karissa Bullins
My sympathies go out to Fred and Sharon on their loss...prayers for your heavy hearts.
My condolences to you Sharon and Fred on your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
We will always remember her beautiful smile! She never missed a chance to ask about my knee! We will miss you ❤️ Mike &Rose
Our condolences to the family. I love the picture you have posted of Aunt Peg and the family. It reminds me of how much I miss our Family Reunions and seeing everyone there to catch up on all that is new. Aunt Peg was always so warm and up-beat. Our prayers are with the family. Bill (Buff) Joy
