Having read Tom's obituary I can confirm he was a funny guy, he was always looking for a laugh or a bit of nonsense. My family Rhona, Niamh, Louis and Isla visited my sister Linda and Tom several times since they got together. Tom was always welcoming and fun. On one occasion we were all trying to get out the door to go on a trip, no easy task as there must have been 9 of us. Tom and Linda had very different ideas about what needed to be done before we set off. Linda's patience with Tom's priorities wore a little thin and tempers were getting a little stretched, all normal domestic stuff. However when Rebecca joined in and they were both getting Tom told, Tom yelled, "get your own husband Becky". I don't really know why, perhaps you needed to be there, but this was funny.
I have put up a picture from about 32 years ago when Tom got a friend (Johnny Middleton)? to take Rhona and I out on the Lake. The picture is framed in our living room at home and has been for many many years. Tom was always generous with his time and really made the effort when we visited.
We will all miss you Tom.
Stewart Donaghy
Glasgow
Scotland