no words can i say my friend on the loss of your daughter, i question God so much why does he allow sadness like this, and he is ok when we question him...as a pastor i have done many funerals in my life, and again i am faced with this question..why..why does he allow this to happen..yet, it is all in his plan, and we can never fully understand his plan..believe me, he hurts with you...probably even more....so whatever happens..happens. in time we will understand..john..please believe me...God does love you and your family..reach out to him, and ask why, and rest with the understanding his love for us..you..your daughter never leaves us.. so reach out as you all are in his hands..agape...ken